I think you sound like a great mum! . Time at home these days is so limited ..I was the same as you and played with Kaitlyn , took walks and spent as much time as I could with her. Then I would run around in nap times doing all the cleaning. Now I am at work 4days a week I wish I could do it all over again. So dont not spend time with your DS just because of what other people thing.

And man I would have been angry if they said my beautiful child was high maintanance!. I mean they are children ..they are not meant to just sit on their own and do nothing.

I would not change a thing you are doing ! ...except maybe the day care centre ..hehe. ALthough in saying that with my daycare I love some things ..dislike others. But Kaitlyn enjoys it so I use that as my guide.