Lesty - that is probably just the opinion of one person in the centre. Maybe you could speak to the manager of the centre about the way you were spoken to? I am sure that is not the opinion of all the carers in the centre and was probably just an off hand comment made by someone without them really thinking about the consequences of such a remark. As a first time mum, I would feel exactly the same as you do, but I think you are doing everything exactly as you should be, so don't let one careless comment ruin your confidence. It is the job of a child carer to care for a child, not to make judgements on the way a parent is raising their own child.

Good luck to you!