Lesty - I find that a bizarre comment after 1 visit especially considering that this was your first visit - I think any child would have behaved the same way. Oh, and aren't all babies 'high maintenance'? I agree with Jo, it was probably just one person's opinion. As you know, everyone has their own opinion on how to raise a child. As for putting the tv on more - I would scrap that - all I ever hear is that people shouldn't put the tv on so much as at a young age they don't really learn anything from it and it stops them moving around (my daughter is mesmerised by the tv, she just stares at it!). I think it sounds like you are doing a great job and I think there is nothing wrong with cuddles. Keep up the good work, don't beat yourself up about one silly comment.