i think i need a dicta-phone sometimes so i can record what im saying a just replay it the required ten/twenty times till she listens,

i feel like a i just say her name over and over and over!!!!

today i started the day with an announcement that it was a listening day, and i would say things three times in a clear voice and if she didnt listen she would miss out on something fun! it has actually been a bit of a better day.