The other thing is that DD still wakes for a couple of hours at night for playtime, usually 11pm-1am. I've lost track of what we have and haven't tried to discourage this. Letting her up to play results in an earlier return to bed than keeping things dark, quiet and as boring as possible. I'm working on being really strict with getting her up at the same time each day so she has a nap at the same time and same bedtime as we had some success with this before. Maybe once this is in place I can then try moving her once she is asleep.

I've tried not to stress about this because who knows what will happen when bubba arrives. But it's hard because I don't see how our current situation will work at all. Plus I could create a whole lot more stress for everyone now, only for it all to go out the window when bubs gets here anyway.