Also how dark is the room? We had a period where DD would wake up crying and wanting to come into bed with us till we realised the room was too dark, once we got a nightlight and she could see us when she woke up, she started resettling more times than not on her own.
I just got a rock salt lamp for the room, which I think is great and find very soothing. It doesn't seem to bother DD much but DH hates it. Another reason he should be the one to be kicked out. lol