LOL Emz! I have to say your post caught my attention and I wondered if you were planning already! hehe.

Of course, I haven't had any experience with gaps.. but I'll say that 5 years between my bro and me was too big.. we lived separate lives.. and a brother that big can be so mean to a little sister! LOL.

A client of mine had 3 kids in the time most would have 2.. and she said that altho she worked her butt off running around after 3 littlies, all the nappies etc are out of the way now in less time. If she had bigger gaps, she'd STILL be changing nappies! know what I mean?

We're planning to start TTC when Tallon turns 1. Allowing for a bit of time to actually conceive, it should be a nice gap i think I'd like Tallon to have us to himself for a couple of years.