My DS will turn 4 this december and we are ttc now. We both decided to wait so long so that we could put the same time and effor tinto our second as we put into our first. I also knew I would be a nervous wreak with two littlies and I wanted to go back to work for a little while. We originally planned to wait another year before ttc but DS is interested in babies at the moment and it suits our lifestyle at the moment to have another baby (God willing :-)

Each family is so different though. i know we faced a lot of oppostion to waiting so long but it is what is right for us IYKWIM