i am in the same boat.. i dont feel our family is what it is meant to be, i am thrilled with the 2 children we have, but can still see us with at least another child, I yern to be pregnant again and have another child but for the moment its not going to happen.

For the moment we are going to concentrate on getting rid of the mortgage as much as possible and looking at our long term goals, we will take some o/s holidays, upgrade our car, things that we want to do and then we will see..

Our DD also starts school next year, so i want 2009 to be about her, not a new baby, i really want to be able to be involved in her school as much as possible, and although i know that this could be done with a pregnancy or a new born it is not what we are choosing to do.

I am having an IUD put in this week, and in 12 months time, DH & I will talk about our family and our goals once again.. so its not out of the question to have more children its just on the back burner!