well it goes sorta like this... from her arvo nap which is about 2-3hours she wake around 4pm she then has a feed, has a play and then daddy gets home at about 5ish. She then jumps in the shower with dad around 6ish and then around 7 she has another feed and this is when i try and get her to go to sleep. Im trying to keep her up during the day but she also has colic and it makes daytime very stressful (hence the shower with dad, i find this brings up alot of wind).