Thanks everyone. I think my biggest problem is that DS2 is so unsettled. Tonight and last night for example, he has barely slept all day, except little cat naps, and except for a sleep with me for 2hrs today. At bed time for the big kids he's the most unsettled. I just have no idea how I will do it on my own especially at night.

Arrgh, gotta go he's awake.....