thread: How do you know when u have enough love for another?

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    Oct 2005
    Gold Coast, Qld
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    Ohhhh Tracey ........I've read your posts..... you are soooo in denial, hehehe :P. Not that this is about you, lol, rather it is about Gill and her feelings and relieving her anxiety. But...
    I s'pose having such a large gap between 1 and 2 and being well and truely out of the babymoon phase you probably missed those feelings that most people feel. Although I've noticed it is really common amongst people with very small first children. I've had countless conversations with mothers with freshly batched babies about this very thing.

    Gill... Guilt comes as a package to motherhood, We question ourselves and our action/words/thoughts all the time. You just have to make the decision and say this is what I'm doing, and accept the consequences. We aren't Super parents and we occassionally get it wrong and as Eden and her sibling grow you'll stumble over choices and decisions but just trust in yourself. Anxiety, guilt are natural emotions that we all feel from time to time in varying degrees, it's nothing to be ashamed of or not to admit to.
    You are a fantastic mummy. :hugs:
    Last edited by Coolabahdee; July 21st, 2007 at 07:31 PM. : Gill has double LL's oops