-When they started to TTC their second child?
When Flynn was 9 months old

-How far apart the children were?
18 months - first time lucky with TTC

-Were you happy with their age gap?
So far so good - it is especially nice that Flynn isn't jealous - YET! Not sure if its his personality or age, but he is still very much a baby and self-absorbed, so doesn't really notice us being affectionate with Oliver.

-How did you cope with the pregnancy with a child already?Hard because I was tired and working, but I have a very helpful DH who made all the difference/

-and what was it like with the two children?
Once again - so far so good!!

ETA - AND what was your second birth like in comparison to the first?
Fantastic - the first was a vaginal delivery without pain relief, forceps or vacuum but plenty of OB interference. The second was 100% natural with midwives assisting. Unbelieveable and calm.