oh this is a goody

When they started to TTC their second child?
we discussed it and I fell straight away when Nikolaus was 9 months old

-How far apart the children were?
18months and one week

-Were you happy with their age gap?
It was hard at first but I got use to it

-How did you cope with the pregnancy with a child already?
Loved it. I would take naps with Nikolaus and we spent alot of quality time together and bonded really well.\

-and what was it like with the two children?
I use to put them both in the pram and just walk if I felt I was having a bad day. they are the best of mates and I dont for amin regret doing it. (see below what I mean)

- AND what was your second birth like in comparison to the first?
I had a terrible first birht 21 hours of labour to have an emergency c/s and lumped wioth post natal and not knowing wht to do. My second was a planned c/s and everything went smoothly and Iwas aloud to enjoy being amum with a nb.

now im pg with number 4 and my 'girls' will have a 16 month age gap. We decided straight after having Vyolett that we wanted her to have a sibbling close in age like her brothers are because they really do share a very special bond (even though one has a disability) and we wanted her tohave that same closeness that they do. I have never regretted having my children so close in age and yes im finding it hard these days with the last few weeks of my pg but thats only cause im uncomfortable and not due to my children. I love being a mum and I love my 'tribe' I wouldnt have it any other way.