I have to be honest and say that with my next one i might move bubs sooner if it's affecting my sex life. With DD i was single and then not having sex until she was already in her own room, but also with a 1st kid you can put them to bed and DTD in another room. But with a toddler roaming the house at night and a baby in the bedroom with us...hmmm. Maybe it'd be better to set the bedroom aside for DP and I to have our time alone. Although that said i know one woman who co-sleeps with her 3 kids, all under 5 and is PG again so they obviously find time/space. She told me when the bubs she's having was concieved the younger 2 were sleeping already, and she got really fiddly PJ's for the oldest one and they DTD on the kitchen table while DD#1 was in the bathroom doing up all the buttons on the PJ's. ROFL!

Bx