thanks everyone!
our routine thats been the same since she was 3 weeks old is currently
5.30 dinner
6.00 bath
then book boob and bed...
though im weaning off the boob and maybe thats when things took a little turn mmmmm

am going to try the same but after boob. i'll read some books with her while DH plays with DD1 and see how we go
am also going to try out a special CD a special person gave me