well i dont want to stop the dummy altogether, just cut back on its use. my DD has always just used it for sleep time, in the car or when upset. but since she has been able to say the word dummy (she is now 18 months) she seems to want it and have it ALL day long! when i say no, she chucks a fit, or goes and finds it herself. how can i get her to just stick to using it at bed time or in the car.?