Lots of hugs to you - I know it's hard. Just thought I'd pop in my two cents worth - I reckon you're right about the teeth... Charlie never got any relief from Bonjela, but SM33 gel was a godsend. Funny - another friend of mine who gets mouth ulcers all the time reckons SM33 doesn't do anything for her but she loves Bonjela. Everyone is different I suppose. Anyway, if the Bonjela doesn't work, try SM33. HTH!