i agree with u to an extent TFB and i talked to DH and he said no way then he told me u said u were finished could u deal wit these 2 and a baby it sounds like he has left the decision to me but pointing out all the ways i wouldnt be able to cope he knows me and hes right i wouldnt cope especially since i want a full time job and save a deposit for a house definately not possible with another baby
the way he is i dont think he would care if i really wanted another one he would let me but i have thought about it and right now is not the time for another baby