Just a quick reply - the last 2 nights have been far more successful!! The first night she woke up to 5 times but each time I went in, cuddled or patted her, pulled hte covers up and said "it's bed time" and left - she cried the first time for ages - it was awful but she really was only protesting. Last night she woke twice but within 2 mins of me going in she settled. She is soooooo happy and full of energy this morning - I can't believe how being consistent and strong can help with their sleep.

I know some people say that they learn to give up but I really feel that me always going in was encouragin her habit of waking. I only had to let her cry/protest for 40 mins on first night and that was it.