Hi olderdad. You are surrounded by women aren't you, you poor thing! You should be used to riding out PMT so I guess this is the same thing! Here are some tips:

Firstly for your DD - different things work for different kids. Try bonjela, homeopathic teething drops, panadol if you think it's needed. Also give her lots of things to chew. Some of the best things are cold - you can buy teething rings that go in the fridge so they are cold. Others put wet flannels in the fridge for their littlies to chew on. I've also heard that it's good to let them chew on orange peel, but get organic oranges to make sure there's no pesticide on it.

For you DF - I think some TLC might help. Also anything you can do to help around the house would be greatly appreciated I'm sure. If all else fails how about a stiff drink - for you or her!! Good Luck!