First - Congrats on your pregnancy!!!

I fell pregnant with Miss T when Julia was 1yr old also, its actually a really good age gap and remember you still have 8 months before the new bubba is born, so all will be ok, just enjoy and cherish the time with her before the new baby comes then include her in everything when the new baby arrives, buy her a present from the baby etc. My girls were so excited to receive presents from Annabel when she was born 2 weeks ago! and Julia was great when Tara was born (she was 22 months then).

hugs, its hard not to feel guilty, I understand. xxx