Missy,
Sorry DD was hospitalised thankfully we are home now.
We have done IVF for about 3 years, I was lucky with a fert specialist that backed my cycles back to back. So really After 3 cycles got pregnant lost that preg at 17 weeks had 3 months off then did 10 cycles got pregnant lost that at 20 weeks then had another 2 months off and after 6 fell with DD. My complications were nothing to do with IVF just " if the world was going to end I wouldnt be allowed on the re populationing ship". DH has low motility so they said they pick the better looking spermies in DH case they must be girls.