charlyfrog- I fully understand what your going through... i'm bout 25 weeks preg and have a 3 y/o son... ATM he's so clingy, sooky, needs my attention 24/7.... its so frustrating. I'm trying to teach him that bubs is comming soon and he'll have to share mummy (also trying to kind of distance myself from him a bit as he relys on me for everything)

Even DP cant hug me or sit next to me without him punching him or squeezing inbetween us... Think it must be a faze cos preschool told me that alot of the parents are complaining bout the same thing.
I'm trying to make him more independant, giving him special instructions, giving him more occuplying things to do, more complicated art stuff, puzzles, games, etc then having an hour or so one on one time with him then he naps and when he wakes i give him something else to do... Its slowly working but taking a long time...

I figured when bubs arrives i'll be able to get him to help me get the nappies for changing, get a book to read to bubs etc... things that make him feel useful but independant at the same time...

Good luck