Jealousy!

[Antheia]

It was Charlie's 1st birthday today and lily was so jealous that he got presents and she didn't. she kept taking them off him saying 'mine!' i told her no, they are charlie's it is charlie's birthday today. She didn't like that response so chucked a tanty and grabs charlie's toy again. I told her no again and took charlie with me out of the room. She calmed down after a bit a kinda forgot. I ended up giving her one of her xmas pressies just to stop her form taking charlies presents. Now i'm not sure if i should do this in advance. Buy her a small gift(and visa versa on Lily's birthday) when its his b'day just so she doesnt get so jealous? I feel like that is kinda wrong to be honest because really it is charlie's day and i dont want the attention taken away from him. like when he's older he will think well whats so great about this we both get pressies anyway etc. iykwim? but i'm not sure what else to do in future?