Oh Tegan I feel for you hun, and I too can totally understand why you gave her the pressie even though you didn't think it was a good idea. Luckily Jack was really good on Tom's birthday, but we have recently started having some jealous moments. I expect that it is a normal part of their development, but it doesn't help us poor exhausted mums. It must be even harder for you being pg too. I hope it settles down soon for you and I also love the idea of counting her birthday down on a chart.