Tallon loves to teach Kayla things. He's starting to teach her signing now LOL. But we've definitely used "you can show Kayla how to do this when she's bigger" etc. We haven't had any jealousy problems tho, but I do get him to help with Kayla (he even fed her her food last night LOL) so it seems to be working so far.

Maybe Zander feels like he's having to grow up a bit too quick. I did find myself expecting more of Tallon. Guess we need to keep in mind they are still little kids and want to feel like the need mummy as much as they used to