Amy we had the same sort of bedtime for Alexzander for a long time. He was quite unsettled with reflux & it was just very difficult to get him settled in bed any earlier. Somehow he managed to change his routine on his own & instead of sleeping 11pm-10am (getting up several times a night too), he now sleeps from 7.30-7.30 each night. Sometimes we have odd late nights & he's fine with it.

Do what works for YOUR family, no two families are the same.