How did you all know you were ready to dd to your family? Our dd is almost 11 months old and was 3 years in the making, our beautiful rainbow baby. We would love a 2 yr age gap and after the issues last time we know it could take a while. DH is keen to start trying again but I found myself a little bit hesitant as I feel guilty for our baby. I feel like she could miss out on me if I am sick again but I also know how amazing it would be for her to have a close sibling.
I guess I am also scared of that emotional rollercoaster again. Any hints?