PP - I don't really have any advice, but just wanted to give you guys a cos that was bloody rude of that mother, and if I had been there I probably would have smacked her out.

Some people just have to go out of their way to make you feel like a freak or something.
FFS, its just snot.. not poison.

DS isn't on vitamins though, but I have been thinking about it. He's not on toddler milk, and not eating because he is sick - but he's sick because he goes to day care, not because he doesn't take his vitamins.. if that makes sense.