Yes I certainly need to be stronger and tell my family when enough is enough with bubs.
They just don't get it though (yes, all of mums kids were bought up in a very NOISY full on environment)
Biggest problem is is that i have 9 siblings and most of them still live with my parents so none of them get enough time with baby cause there are SO many of them and when i see them they are all super excited.
This calls for some ground rules to be put in place - - and hopefully in time all will settle
Thanks for all the advice!