i smashed hannahs head into the corner of the door frame when i was holding her facing outwards on my hip. she only cried for a bit but there was a bump and i felt so bad. i know what you mean about the nil by mouth thing. when she was 4 days old she vomited bile and we had to take her to the hospital they examined her for bowel problems and said not to feed her because they may have to operate. she was screaming the place down and all i could do was let her suck my finger, it was heartbreaking!!!!!!!!!