it does your head in when they chuck tanties doesn't it. It must be pretty hard on you coping with 5 a day. I'm afraid I have very little to suggest except maybe the trying to catch her being good thing. When you see her doing the right thing (ie sitting quietly in her pram for half a second lol) give her heaps of praise so that she wants to repeat the good behavoiur to get the praise and good attention.