I reckon if you've had your baby before christmas (or even if not) have people come to you and limit your availability if you need to rest. Don't commit to running round all over the place

We haven't made plans for chrissy yet - it'll be here or my parents depending on how we feel. At any rate, I will be putting my feet up and feeding baby and taht's about it (assuming s/he doesn't keep us waiting beyond that of course).