Thanks so much ladies for the advice and the confidence boost. I find it hard to say no but I will do it for bubs and my best interest if i need to. Like a few of you said I won't be having her passed from pillar to post and then being overstimulated and not sleeping. I'm also concerned as they say a few days after birth you get the blues, so I could be very emotional, learning how to BF, recovering etc. Maybe we can just make an appearance an hr or 2 at each family and head home in between.
Thanks again everyone