I too am anti earrings on young girls. I just think it looks tacky. Sorry. We won't be allowing our DD to have hers done till she's at least 10. I had to wait till 10 to get mine done & it hasn't hurt me any. Definitely agree with a few of the other girls though, you can't do this without DP agreeing & definitely don't bring a third party into it. I imagine it will just cause a major blue. Ultimately the decision is yours & DP, so do what you feel is right.