Honey, i dont have any advice i just wanted to pop in and give you :hugs: and tell you, you are not failing anything. The only thing i can think of for the crying is maybe shes to hot? to cold? over-tired or uncomfortable?

When my DS was a couple of weeks old he was exactly like your DD, The best way i found possible to get him to sleep (during the day) was to go for a drive whilst he fell asleep and put on a cd of the rainforest/soothing music.or put him in the pram and take him for a walk. I dont know if this would work for you but it could also mean spending time with your DD1 walking to the park, driving around etc ywim? of a evening i used to give DS a warm bath and a light massage and a little play again i dont know if this would work for your DD just a few ideas.

Good luck lovely. xxxxxx