lol Starbright, thats ok about the booboo

Thanks for all of your replies, I will definately be googling the sensitive child issue and also thanks for the recommendations of the books..

Guess i'm just tired and fed up and now dh is talking about another baby, don't know if I could handle all of this again

It is good to hear other peoples children react like this, because I have not seen it in any children that I know.