Kerrie i think you know in your heart were you want to live and that is were you are now.

I always said i would love to live near the beach but if someone said here's a house with lots of land to go with it I'd move tomorrow. It's safe for the kids and you have room for a pony. I would love to have a horse and the kids to have a pony.

Maybe when they are older move closer to the city.
If it's about the money can you not sell abit of the land to get some extra $$$.

GL with what ever you end up doing.