Well just thought I'd add that we've just decided to move to the country!!! Probably in about 12m when we can afford too but we will buy a bit of land and build so will be in the same situation!! We're really excited about it as dh's parents are up there and so he'll have work organised with them before we go and the most important thing - I won't have to work! So I can just enjoy the time and the fresh country air and my beautiful bubbas!!!!!