mumma2three do you eat bananas? I found that when i ate bananas and then fed ds he was exactly the same as your ds. He was ALWAYS grunting and struggling with gas and poo's at that age, yes it was frustrating and horrible to see him go through it, but we got through it. Big Hugs to you, you are doing a great job!

Then when he got older, if he at bananas, he would be severely constipated. We have only just recently started giving him bananas again in small doses and he can now eat them with no worries!

P.S, i did find that the massage helped ALOT, so keep that going. Good Luck.