This may sound really silly, but DH has said he's not interested in another baby, but will listen to my reasons, once and once only.
Thats a bit sad and unfair! I don't really have anything you can add to your list, but I hope your hubby can see how important this is to you and considers it at least. And if not don't give up hope keep at him! He might get it eventually. Meh at only once what a load of hogwash! GOODLUCK!!!

*hugs*
Cailin