Its such a difficult decision to make i think. We always said we would try for a second when ds was 1 but now that the occasion is upon us (less than a month eek) I am not ready at all for another. I really want to be settled in a bigger house and i just want to enjoy ds and being able to give him all my attention. We have also had a few issues with ds in the last couple months which has made having another a very unattractive idea. Plus im enjoying new parts of my life such as exercise that i would need to give up if i got pregnant again. As a result we are going to wait till he is 18 months now and think about it then. I worry though that we will take a long time to conceive and then there will be a big age gap and then some days i think why not just put caution to the wind and let fate decide when bub #2 comes along. For now i am pretty happy to wait for another 6 months and reassess but in the mean time every time i see a newborn baby my ovaries hurt lol. Hope the decision is easier for you that it has been for us!