Awww lovey I think you need to relax or do what I did. I got my DH to go by that monitor that you put the plates under the basinet/cot and if for some reason there is not movement/breathing the alarm goes off in 20sec. Its takes abit getting use to as you have to turn it off or by the time you get out in the kitchen or where ever the alarm is going off...lol...and its loud. Once We got this I put my son in his room and not ours as he was because I was always checking on him cause I was scared of sids. The best thing we ever brought. Its called Angle care or some thing like that. Baby galour has them.

Good luck