Thanks for the ideas ladies...

Heidi- yes i have been thinking if we should cut it down to one nap so maybe that is the key to geting her to bed earlier (hmmm sounds so obvious now )

Flea- Firsgt of all... OMG at how early you all get up!!! Now thats something i couldnt cope with!! I am thinking that maybe 9am is a little to late for her to be sleeping in till, but i guess when i cut her second nap and get her to bed earlier she will be up earlier too .... i guess its a small price to pay! Your right tho, i think getting her meal times set will help.