I agree.. just go with the flow. I did that with Jesse and he's kinda set himself a routine. Whenever he starts to look sleepy during the day ill put him in his cot. He'll then self settle and can sleep for up to 3 hours. If he wakes after only a half hour (which is prob every second day) i just let him try and settle himself again. He can be in there talking his head off and then may get a bit stroppy so ill give him a dummy, play his music and he goes back to sleep. I like the idea of him having that long sleepy during the day... means he's a happy baby in the evening.