Thanks for the tips guys, I do sleep when she sleeps, which is till about 11am! (hee hee) but I would rather have my day back. Doesn't help with any appointments.

Oorki, we havent tried the bath at night, because well - she hates baths, much prefers showers. Also, I do all her feeds if she wakes during the night as DH's hours change every week (like this week he has to be up and out by 5am, but home by 4.30pm) When he gets home, he changes takes bub and feeds or he changes and starts dinner. We take turns with her whilst we eat dinner, then we try to get her to sleep. He usually tidies up and washes bottles for me if I haven't got round to it during the day.