Thanks everyone - we found one in Big W. It's called the "Hide-A-Way" gate and the brand is The First Years. The actual gate is soft flexible plastic. It rolls out like a holland (?) blind and hooks into the other side. There is a locking mechanism that stops the gate from being pulled out any further, ie. little hands/bodies can't push it down by leaning against it. The only problem is that Charlotte is freaked out by the sound of the gate being pulled out!! Oh well, she'll get used to it, I'm sure!