Yeah, I'd look into EI. Do you know what the problem is with your brother & dad? Is it inherited? My BIL is 'slow'. He contracted meningitis & the brain swelling/fluid caused the damage. I worried about it & so did DH. It was only about 4 years ago we found out the full story.
IL's also lost a baby who was severely disabled at 3 weeks old. I'm pretty sure he was Trisome 13, but now 100%... But all our children & IL's other kids are fine.
Remember that all babies to develop at their own rate. no point stressing about a probkem that may not even be there. Mine didn't 'click' to toilet training til they were older than average. DD2 still wets the bed at nearly 7 & was delayed in speech. Other than her ADD & a bit of SPD, she's perfect
You're not doing anything wrong. For their ages they both sound like they are doing things that are completely normal. There may be something not quite right (listen to your instinct), but there is no such thing as normal
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