I was gong to say reflux for Kat as well. My DD (also Katherine!!) has silent reflux until about 8 months. She would cry constantly and feed ALL the time. It's a catch 22 thing, they want the milk cause they have reflux (heartburn) but it makes it worse in the long run. She also didn't like lying down and would do better on her tummy. Maybe get a GP to check her out. If it is reflux, there's a lot that you can do.
Hugs honey, this sounds like a hard time for you. xx
Huge hugs DD . I would also recommend stopping with the TT atm. Both my boys didn't TT until they were good and ready - both were just on 3 when they finally got it. Take that stress away from you right now, you don't need it!
Definitely go with your gut instinct about your DS, get him checked out and push the point if you don't feel listened to. Poor Kat sounds like she's uncomfortable. It could be reflux so it's worth getting her checked out too. I would highly recommend getting a paediatric chiropractor to look over her too - ours worked miracles for my babies .
Check with your MCHN to see if your local council offers an early intervention program. My previous one had one called Toddler Matters and it was a "supervised play group" that was attended by various specialists such as an occupational therapist, speech therapist etc and they would observe the kids and that could lead to further action if it were needed. We didn't qualify because it was for under 3s and mine was too old for it by the time we thought there may be issues.
It's hard when you think something might be wrong with your child. There is help out there and it could be something very minor that is holding him back
i just wanted to back up what the others have said about TT. ds2 has turned 3 and i haven't even started TT him yet. he's just not ready. give it some more time.
i think you should trust your gut instinct & if you feel you need to take some action, then do. as everyone has said, it's better to get started early.
fwiw, my DS is 2yrs 8mths & i don't think near TT at all. his cousin will be 3 next week & i saw a post on fb yesterday about 2 'puddles' that he left in ikea when they were there & to me it doesn't seem like he is totally ready either.
Hun, please dont think because he isnt 'getting' toilet training at barely 2 that there is anything wrong with him! None of my kids have trained before 3.5 - even my autistic son. Neither of my neurotypical kids are in any way slow or have a problem. They just werent ready and I refused to spend my life worrying about something so inconsequential!
As for your other concerns, can you go and see a pediatric psychologist? They would be your best avenue of figuring out whats normal and what isnt with your sons behaviour. They will usually not make any calls until the child in question is 3 though, so just be aware of that.
Oh DarekDreamer what an awful lot of anxiety and stress you have atm I cant say anything more than what these lovely ladies have said. Trust yourself, trust your gut and do what you believe is right for W. You are his Mummy and you are hard wired to know him better than anyone else. You are doing a great job, dont forget that With Kat, I put my 2 cents in else where on her
FYI my DDs are 2yrs 3mths and not TT. DD1 has done one wee on the toilet and that was this morning. Rest of the time she wees on herself (if she's ever nappy free). Kids take time to TT so try not to worry.
Thanks all. I've been reading but not responding yet cause I had a horrid night last night.
Its not just the 'not ready to TT' thats making me feel like this. TBH, I'm quite ok with him not being ready to TT (it's DH who's got a bit of a problem) but it's everything else. The not talking (only saying mumum and again), the not answering his name - ever - when we call him, the obsessiveness he has with my hair, the obsessiveness he has with the blocks, the not wanting to walk anywhere, the not using forks and spoons, the not being interested in using a cup, ther needing to eat everything off the floor, the being such a picky eater... after getting just one comment, it's all piling on me and I'm just a bit worried - well, a bit more than a little bit.
DH and I, with Kat, are thinking either reflux, silent reflux or colic. I'm doing as much research as possible and they seem the three most likely
Last edited by ElleJay; February 29th, 2012 at 11:34 AM.
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. I would also recommend stopping with the TT atm. Both my boys didn't TT until they were good and ready - both were just on 3 when they finally got it. Take that stress away from you right now, you don't need it!
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I cant say anything more than what these lovely ladies have said. Trust yourself, trust your gut and do what you believe is right for W. You are his Mummy and you are hard wired to know him better than anyone else. You are doing a great job, dont forget that
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